I have been searching. Searching for a method or a way, that would solve all of my difficulties as a mommy of little children (with no older kids to help, or outside help). It has taken me almost 7 years and 4 babies to discover that there is no real solution (unless you've discovered the solution please let me know!!). I've discovered
helps such as routines (and you should know that I really really like routines), but there isn't a solution to the heavy workload, the crying babies, the tantrums, the fighting children, the many many messes (ie. diapers, potty training, crafts, playing in the dirt etc), laundry, the lack of sleep (a very big one for me), and not to mention pregnancy things (morning sickness...or all day sickness etc) and the emotional drain on the body too. There may be a solution if you can afford it, but no one can teach or train your children for you as you would.
I've recently read a book on managing a large family but it was worthless for me. Because I do not have children who are old enough to be able to share the work load. The book itself said that if your a mommy of only littles it is basically just hard going until you have one old enough to really help. If someone would've told me that, I wouldn't have bothered buying the book. :) Now that being said I would clarify that Amelia is of age to learn, as is Aaron, but again, this is something else I have to do before they are able to be big helps, we have to teach them.
So how do you encourage one who is a mommy of littles and only littles? I think the main answer is quite clear. We need to be daily clinging to the Lord. He alone can give us the strength to continue "
My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness." Some people can live week by week (so to speak) but when your a mother of many littles we often live moment by moment. I find if I'm praying more, praising more, reading more (even if its little bits) and loving more the day goes smoother. What else could I add to that list?
Instead of searching for a solution, I need to be resting upon the Lord.
Note: As I wrote this I worried about people thinking, either 1. I'm looking for help, or 2. I'm complaining of my station in life. Neither are true. I'm just jotting down a few thoughts I had today. :)